For those who have located men you are considering on one of your favored online dating sites, I say do it. Deliver the guy a note and introduce your self. Attract their passions, and make certain to close with a concern that moves him to motion, one that requires him to react.
I think the easiest method to begin is by saying, “Hi, (their name). I’m (your name). I noticed that individuals both like exactly the same (band, publication, food, travel destination). I wish to find out more in regards to you. Do you think you’re seeing anyone/have you previously viewed (preferred band) in concert/did you are aware there’s a sequel coming-out to your preferred book?”
Keep it short and nice. You wish to give him plenty of information to spark their interest, although not adequate to bore or overpower him.